GAMES FOR PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE COUPLES – GAME 3: NUDE HAMLET (PART 3)
By this time the real passive spouse will have at least begun to protest. “This is a ridiculous play!” The active spouse will then invite the passive spouse to the stage to play the dummy’s role, but will require him or her to undress first. They will do the scene again—but this time as the passive spouse would like to play it. When they do play out the new version, the active spouse will begin to embrace and kiss the passive spouse—a move which will lead to new and unexpected reactions and feelings on the part of both.
The passive spouse, in playing the scene differently, has the opportunity to do what every writer does—re-create life in one’s own image. In doing so, that person unwittingly begins to see the relationship in a new way and to try new approaches and responses.
This couple definitely will find that their sexual relations improve as they replay this script. Also, the play will leave an indelible impression that will require much further discussion—if not right at that time, then at some point in the near future. The scene can be repeated again and again and each time elicit new reactions and feelings, stimulating a resurgence of sexual passion and more-honest communication.
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